Shadow Work at Scale
Fifty years ago, the U.S. military pulled out of Vietnam. It reminds me what happens when we fail to face our collective shadow.
Shadow Work Isn't Just Personal
We often talk about shadow work as a solo journey. That work matters. But shadow work scales. Families, communities, and entire nations carry shadow, too. When those bigger shadows remain unseen, they fester and cause harm—sometimes on a massive scale.
When We Avoid, We Repeat
Take Vietnam. Nearly 60,000 American lives were lost. Yet there's been no national day of reckoning, no formal apology, no collective moment of reflection. Just silence. That silence is the shadow. When we avoid it, we keep making the same mistakes.
Choosing Dialogue Over Division
Doing shadow work at scale means choosing curiosity over certainty. It means noticing when we're triggered and pausing to ask, "Why?" It means talking to each other—not past each other. That's not weakness. That's leadership.





